The Cross is raised on the shoulders of Jesus. We follow and watch our Lord and those who surround him.
Did He not bear the heaviest part of what ever Cross you have? Is there a pain or suffering in this world that human beings ever had that their brother Jesus had not before them? We will take courage, we will walk in the steps of our Cross, we will bear our Cross bravely. We may faint under it, fall under it, but one thing we will not do, by his grace supporting us, by his grace helping us, we will not throw it from us.